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Fake Love: Understanding and Healing from Narcissistic Abuse

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Call no.
: 362.8292/GIB
Author
: Nova Gibson
Contributor
: Nur Syazleen Binti Bolhar@Bolhan
Summary
This book is deeply insightful and empowering book that sheds light on one of the most painful yet often misunderstood experiences in relationships that is narcissistic abuse. What I find most impactful about this book is how it not only explains the behaviors and patterns of narcissists but also focuses on the emotional, psychological, and even physical toll that such relationships can leave behind. The author presents narcissistic abuse in a way that is easy to understand, offering both practical knowledge and emotional validation for those who have lived through it. As I read through the pages, I felt that the book provided a strong sense of clarity about how manipulative cycles—such as love-bombing, gaslighting, and devaluation—trap victims in relationships that are harmful to their self-esteem and overall well-being. It made me reflect on how important awareness is, because many victims may not even realize they are being manipulated until the damage is already done. The author’s empathetic approach allows readers to feel seen and understood, which is incredibly important for anyone trying to rebuild their life after such an experience. Personally, I think Fake Love is not just for survivors of narcissistic abuse, but also for friends, family members, and anyone who wants to better understand how destructive toxic relationships can be. It encourages compassion while also reinforcing the importance of walking away from harmful patterns. For me, the biggest takeaway is that true love cannot exist in an environment of manipulation and control; real love is nurturing, respectful, and mutual. Overall, this book left me with a sense of hope. It reminded me that while narcissistic abuse can cause deep wounds, it does not define the survivor’s future. Healing is a journey, but with the right understanding and support, moving forward into healthier, more authentic relationships is absolutely possible. Fake Love is a must-read for anyone seeking both knowledge and healing—it is not only informative but also emotionally uplifting, giving survivors the tools and courage to rebuild their lives with strength and dignity.